Wednesday, October 03, 2007

A new addition to the family


With fond memories of the previous other occupant in the driveway, I am now happy to say that I can get around in my own car, registered in my own name (of course Debbie agreed to it and helped pay for it).
Introducing the family's 2004 Saturn Ion. Specs: silver, 5-speed, 2.2L Ecotec engine, 4 doors, AC, AM-FM-CD, crank windows, manual door locks, no fob.
Thanks to Mary at Ultimate Suzuki in London for her help.

Let's hope it lasts a long time with us.

Friday, September 21, 2007

Good News Network

I have added the Good News Network to my list of "Links of Interest" because we all can use a little good news each and every day. Reminds me of Anne Murray's song. Have a blessed and great day!

Wednesday, September 19, 2007

Sorry, been caught in Facebook

Sorry for no recent posts. I have been expressing myself--and watching the expressions of others--on Facebook. You can see my profile there at http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=538880134 . I haven't given up here yet.

Friday, August 17, 2007

Congrats to National Cannonball Champ

Congrats to Brian Utley, a 350-pound Calgary high school teacher, who won the Trident Splash National Cannonball Championship on Wednesday in a lighthearted contest that featured elaborately costumed competitors leaping from a five-metre tower into a swimming pool. Read more (and video) at
http://cnews.canoe.ca/CNEWS/WeirdNews/2007/08/15/4420804-cp.html .
I don't know Brian, but I love a good soaking splash.

Sunday, August 12, 2007

Supporting MMP referendum in Ontario

On October 10 Ontario voters will have the choice of keeping or changing their government. They will also get the choice to keep the current first-past-the-post electoral system, or bring in a Mixed-Member-Proportional voting system. 
For the record, I am supporting the betterment of our democracy and urging Ontarians to support the implementation of the MMP system of electing our representatives.
Here are some links to the issue (h/t to Gary S and www.voteformmp.ca ).
 

    Monday, July 30, 2007

    Wet phones not always a disaster

    Phones flushed down the toilet
    Mon, July 30, 2007
    By COLIN PERKEL, CP
    http://lfpress.ca/newsstand/News/National/2007/07/30/4378890-sun.html

    TORONTO -- Vincent Soper won't soon forget the fleeting moment of panic he felt as he jumped to reach a switch in a washroom of the movie theatre where he works and his beloved new cellphone lurched from his right-hand jacket pocket.
    The 15-year-old, from Hanover, made a desperate attempt to stave off text-messaging disaster.
    "I tried to hit it away from the toilet, but it just bounced off the rim before falling in," Soper said. "I didn't think. I grabbed it out."
    In an age of instant e-mail and smartphones, it seems, dumb users are multiplying. And toilet bowls are swallowing cellphones with untethered regularity.
    "You'd be surprised how many people drop it in the toilet," said Todd McLauchlin, with Prairie Mobile in Regina. "That's very common."
    Flushing phones, however, isn't the only way people find to inadvertently damage their mobile devices.
    There was the woman who left her phone in a pair of pants that went through both the washer and dryer cycles. Another multi-tasker, who was texting and doing the dishes at the same time, saw hers nosedive into the sink full of suds.
    The list goes on.
    There's the guy who went swimming with the phone still in his trunks; the priest who dropped his into a pitcher of beer; or the sleepy man who one night grabbed his cell instead of a glass of water from his bedtable, then promptly dunked the phone in the glass.
    Hapless users talk of phones that bobble from pockets to sidewalks -- sometimes into puddles -- during a sprint for the bus, while the butter-fingered have seen theirs end up under car tires, on subway tracks, in their breakfast cereal or morning cup of java.
    Sebastien Charest, a technician with FirstComm Wireless in Ottawa, remembers one guy coming in with a plastic bag filled with cellphone bits. It had flipped from his hip as he cut the grass and the mower made short work of it.While a mashed phone will never see last call again, technical gurus say all may not be lost if one does end up in the neighbourhood swimming pool, local cesspool or some other potentially watery grave.
    The key, they advise, is to get the battery out immediately to avoid short circuits. The secondary danger is internal circuit corrosion, so it's essential to dry out the phone as quickly as possible, perhaps with the help of a blast of compressed air, a handy vent or just bright sunshine.
    Soper, with some TLC from a hair dryer, got his high-tech buddy back into pristine working order. His mother's phone -- which ended up with her in the Saugeen River when her canoe tipped -- never did work quite properly again.
    While there are no guarantees a drowned phone will recover, water damage is guaranteed to void warranties.
    Fibbing about what happened likely won't help, either, experts say: A little white sticker, usually under the battery, turns red when it gets wet, so the service centre will know the phone's been swimming.

    CELLPHONE FIRST AID


    Technical experts say all may not be lost if your cellphone ends up drowning in a toilet bowl, swimming pool or other watery destination. Some first aid tips:
    - Retrieve phone as quickly as possible
    - If still on, turn off. If off, leave off
    - Remove battery immediately
    - Dry off battery and outside of phone
    - Use hair dryer, compressed air, an air vent or sunshine to dry out phone as quickly as possible
    - Cross your fingers.

    Many lives of children saved in Afghanistan

    Exiting leader praises saving children's lives
    Sun, July 29, 2007
    By MARTIN OUELLET, CP
    http://lfpress.ca/newsstand/News/International/2007/07/29/4376896-sun.html

    KANDAHAR -- Canada's outgoing military commander in Afghanistan says Canadian and NATO efforts there have helped save the lives of 40,000 children.
    And Brig.-Gen. Tim Grant says that's a "conservative estimate."
    In a CP interview at the multinational base in Kandahar, Grant said he's handing his successor, Brig.-Gen. Guy Laroche, a country more "confident" than it was a year ago.
    "There's 40,000 babies in Afghanistan more this year than . . . last year," said Grant, whose return to Canada is days away. "That's a big number."
    He attributes the success to improvements in health care, which has led to a drop in the region's infant mortality rate.
    Grant says the international community helped put a vaccination program in place and increased access to doctors, particularly for women.
    Meanwhile, even as Taliban activity remains prevalent in Kandahar province, the level of confidence has surged among the city's inhabitants, he said.
    "The town was empty," Grant said of Kandahar 12 months ago. "Now you go there, (it's) like Kandahar City is a successful little town.
    "The shops are open, kids going to school, people have gone back to a normal life. We see farmers have returned in large numbers, thousands of people have gone back to live in their homes."
    He also said villagers in the Panjwaii district, west of Kandahar City, who fled last year after fierce fighting broke out between insurgents and NATO forces, have returned.
    "The streets are full, people are going about their daily lives," Grant said.
    "Yes there are risks, but people have a sense that the situation is manageable, much better than last year, and its getting better."
    Still, Grant's optimism is relative, as Afghanistan remains poverty-stricken and the prey of an insurgency.
    At regular intervals, convoys of Canadian soldiers are the target of suicide bombers and improvised explosive devices.
    Earlier this week, Grant himself narrowly escaped an attack.
    "We do absolutely everything we can to reduce the risks for our soldiers," he said.
    "There will always be a risk here.
    "Soldiers understand that though. Every soldier who is over here realizes that there is a risk with the lifestyle they have chosen."

    In another interview, posted at http://cnews.canoe.ca/CNEWS/War_Terror/2007/07/30/4379832-cp.html , Grant pined for better media coverage of the work in Afghanistan:
    In a second television interview also broadcast Monday, Grant expressed frustration with the difficulty of explaining the importance of the Afghanistan mission to the Canadian public.
    "I can give you examples across the board about how we're making a difference with the people here." Grant said. "This is a poor country, 30 years of war, it needs a lot of help to get back on track."
    Grant blamed a lack of information for poll results that suggest Canadians are uneasy with Canada's role in Afghanistan.
    "The focus always ends up being on casualties, attacks, on the military-security situation," he said. "In fact, where we're making the most difference is on reconstruction and development."
    "If I could find the magic solution to explain to Canadians how important this is, it would make me a happy man."

    Monday, June 18, 2007

    Introducing ChristianConnections.ca

    I have acquired and am posting to a new website, www.ChristianConnections.ca . There I can host the Christian Connections Calendar for SW Ontario, links to The Shepherd's Guides across Canada, and start the links pages I have been envisioning. Thanks to Gary Herrfort, the previous owner, for the seamless transition. I hope that this new site will be a useful tool and help "Making Christian Connections".
    Any suggestions and comments are welcome, and thanks in advance. Leave your comments here, or visit the site to click on the email in www.ChristianConnections.ca .

    Wednesday, June 06, 2007

    Think of what the Palestinians could have accomplished by now...

    Kudos to Mindelle Jacobs for her succinct portrayal of the abuse of the Palestinians. With the manpower and innovation evident in both the Palestinians and Israelis, the Palestine region could have been an economic powerhouse long ago--if they could only get along. Sigh.

    Tue, June 5, 2007
    Leaders have failed Palestinians
    By MINDELLE JACOBS
    http://www.edmontonsun.com/News/Columnists/Jacobs_Mindelle/2007/06/05/4235398-sun.html

    For almost 60 years, Arab countries and factions have pretended to help the Palestinians while using them as pawns to demonize Israel or as a pretext for tribal and religious infighting.
    The clash between the Lebanese army and two shadowy radical Islamic groups is the latest calamity to befall the long-suffering Palestinians.
    Little is clear about what goes on in the Middle East, but one thing is certain. The militants holed up in two of Lebanon's Palestinian refugee camps don't have the Palestinians' interests at heart.
    REFUGEE CAMPS
    The greater tragedy is the Arab world has left the Palestinians to fester in refugee camps, in the hope that Israel would be vanquished. A two-state solution to the Arab-Israeli conflict is the only route to peace.
    Repeatedly, the Palestinians have had a chance for their own state, ever since the UN proposed dividing a small piece of what was formerly the Ottoman Empire into Jewish and Arab countries. The Jews agreed. The Arabs chose war. Think of what the Palestinians could have accomplished by now if they'd chosen state-building instead of war-mongering.
    Their leaders failed them -- and continue to do so today -- and the Arab world has, by and large, left them to wallow in misery because of its undying hatred of a dynamic, successful democracy -- Israel.
    Lebanon, for instance, confines its Palestinians to 12 refugee camps that have, effectively, become mini-states within a state. The Palestinians aren't allowed to own property or work in professions such as medicine, law, engineering and journalism.
    Last year, the Lebanese government eased the restrictions slightly, allowing Palestinians to work in previously prohibited clerical and manual jobs, according to the U.S. Committee for Refugees and Immigrants (USCRI).
    But the permit process is so burdensome and expensive that only two or three refugees had applied by late last year.
    "The consensus view in Lebanon is that whatever happens to these people, we don't want them to stay here," says Tamara Cofman Wittes, a research fellow at the Brookings Institution.
    The Palestinian refugees stuck in camps in Lebanon are worse off than their counterparts anywhere else, she says. The Lebanese resent the Palestinians because Yasser Arafat stirred up so much trouble when he was based in Lebanon in the 1970s, she adds.
    SYRIA
    In Syria, Palestinian refugees are a little better off. They're allowed to work and live where they like, although they don't have citizenship. Still, more than one-quarter of them -- about 115,000 people -- live in 13 camps, USCRI says.
    The Arabs have always supported a political solution rather than a practical solution to the Israeli-Palestinian dispute, says Cofman Wittes.
    "A practical solution would have been to resettle them where they were a long time ago," she says. "But the refugees have been a powerful symbol of Palestinian suffering that the Arab states have wielded in the conflict with Israel. As a result, they've been a political football."
    Tens of millions of refugees displaced after the Second World War rebuilt their lives in new places. Why not the Palestinians?
    It hasn't been a question of what's best for the Palestinians as a community or as individuals, says Cofman Wittes. Instead, the emphasis has been on the most effective political use that could be made of the Palestinians.
    The Palestinians will have their own state when their leaders yearn for it more than they want to annihilate Israel.


    Later: My friend Ron Gray commented: This last sentence reminds me of Golda Meier's comment: "There will be peace in the Middle East when the Arabs love their children more than they hate us."

    Tuesday, May 01, 2007

    In All Fairness ...

    ... if somebody changes their mind because they see the light and the error of their ways, etc., it should be recognized.
    I don't agree with the greening of John Baird so that he is now beholden to the full embrace (he isn't, but what more do they want??) of the global-warming-is-the-only-thing enviros. But CAW leader Buzz Hargrove (yes, the same Buzz I mentioned earlier) is now defending Baird and the Conservative environmental plan from the attacks of Al "I didn't read it, but I read the back of the DVD cover" Gore and David Suzuki. Buzz realizes that the plans desired by the enviros will be costly to Ontario and Canada, especially the workers (CAW or not) in the auto sector.
    Quote: "'Everybody is chasing this new idol called the environment without any thought of how we got here,' the CAW president said yesterday. 'I am not buying the argument myself.'"
    Read more from Joe Warmington of the Toronto Sun at http://www.torontosun.com/News/Columnists/Warmington_Joe/2007/05/01/4144261-sun.html .

    Monday, April 30, 2007

    Common Thread: In-laws

    2 funny stories--one real, the other perhaps real.

    1) Brother, can you spare a bride?
    Mon Apr 30, 2007 8:27AM EDT
    http://www.reuters.com/articlePrint?articleId=USDEL12620520070430
    PATNA, India (Reuters) - Villagers at a wedding in eastern India decided the groom had arrived too drunk to get married, and so the bride married the groom's more sober brother instead, police said Monday.
    "The groom was drunk and had reportedly misbehaved with guests when the bride's family and local villagers chased him away," Madho Singh, a senior police officer told Reuters after Sunday's marriage in a village in Bihar state's Arwal district.
    The younger brother readily agreed to take the groom's place beside the teenage bride at her family's invitation, witnesses said.
    "The groom apologized for his behavior, but has been crying that word will spread and he will never get a bride again," Singh said by phone.

    2) That guy wasn't too smart, but this one is:
    The prospective father-in-law asked his daughter's fiance, "Young man, are you able to support a family?"
    The surprised groom-to-be replied, "Well, no. I was just planning to support your daughter. The rest of you will have to fend for yourselves."

    Tuesday, April 17, 2007

    Thanks for celebrating

    Thanks to all who came, wrote or called for my birthday. I had a wonderful weekend. Thanks especially to my wife and family who did so much to make all the events and fun happen.
    God Bless you all,
    Ken

    Saturday, April 14, 2007

    Buzzing the wrong way, again

    Doesn't Buzz Hargrove realize that Stephane Dion is the most uninformed "environmentalist" politician with a title in Ottawa, and he would restrict or ban SUVs and large trucks, making it even harder on the auto and oil industries to survive in Canada?
    Dumb Dumb Buzz. And people are following him. Sigh.

    http://lfpress.ca/newsstand/CityandRegion/2007/04/14/4012922-sun.html
    Sat, April 14, 2007 By MICHAEL OLIVEIRA, CP
    CAW chief tells members to back Grits to save jobs
    Buzz Hargrove said the greatest threat to the auto industry is a Conservative majority in Parliament.

    PORT ELGIN -- The Canadian Auto Workers union targeted Prime Minister Stephen Harper and the "insanity" of the environmental movement yesterday as delegates talked strategy with an election ever looming and an Ontario provincial vote less than six months away.
    Although historically linked with the New Democrats, union president Buzz Hargrove used a national meeting of delegates to recommend strategic voting to bolster the Liberals, both federally and provincially, and cautioned against the growing momentum of Harper's Conservatives in the polls.
    "You'll see the real Stephen Harper, once he gets to be prime minister with a majority in the Parliament," he warned.
    With politicians increasingly absorbing green policies into their platforms, Hargrove also attacked environmentalists who want the auto sector targeted to fight climate change.
    The upcoming elections are fuelling a lot of rhetoric as politicians try to "out green" one another, Hargrove said.
    "Politicians are running with it now because Canadians are saying it's a key issue in the upcoming election and it just infuriates me," Hargrove said.
    "We stand to lose 150,000 jobs in our auto industry if the insanity of this environmental movement is allowed to continue."
    Canada is only responsible for about two per cent of the world's total greenhouse gas production and shutting down the entire country would barely make an impact, Hargrove said.
    Still, Hargrove said the union is supportive of the Kyoto Accord -- as long as timetables are flexible enough for industries to meet them.
    Hargrove invited Ontario's Liberal Premier Dalton McGuinty to deliver a speech at the conference and said he was impressed by McGuinty's recent statement that the auto industry shouldn't necessarily phase out gas guzzlers like SUVs because, realistically, they're not going away.
    McGuinty, who has said the industry should instead focus on innovation and deliver a vehicle that's big and clean, didn't shy away from promoting a green agenda yesterday -- saying the auto sector can survive while appeasing environmentalists.
    "We're going to make Ontario the clean-car capital of the world," McGuinty said, hinting such an initiative would be a part of his government's climate change plan, which he said would be announced in a few weeks.
    While a few delegates quietly booed when the premier's name was announced, during a question-and-answer session they chose to attack Harper for not support their industry.
    Jim Freeman, a General Motors assembly line worker, said he's a New Democrat at heart, and thinks little of McGuinty, but will put his political affiliations aside to keep the Conservatives out of power.
    "I've been an NDPer for 30 years and I still will be (after the election), but I understand what Buzz is talking about," he said.

    Friday, April 13, 2007

    It must be after Easter. They're not sure Jesus was dead.

    Really. The experts used by James Cameron to prove Jesus is still dead are now drastically changing their conclusions ...
    In part:
    Several prominent scholars who were interviewed in a bitterly contested documentary that suggests that Jesus and his family members were buried in a nondescript ancient Jerusalem burial cave have now revised their conclusions, including the statistician who claimed that the odds were 600:1 in favor of the tomb being the family burial cave of Jesus of Nazareth, a new study on the fallout from the popular documentary shows.
    The dramatic clarifications, compiled by epigrapher Stephen Pfann of the University of the Holy Land in Jerusalem in a paper titled "Cracks in the Foundation: How the Lost Tomb of Jesus story is losing its scholarly support," come two months after the screening of The Lost Tomb of Christ that attracted widespread public interest, despite the concomitant scholarly ridicule.

    Finish reading at http://www.jpost.com/servlet/Satellite?cid=1176152766396&pagename=JPost%2FJPArticle%2FPrinter

    Monday, April 09, 2007

    Joint Remembrances

    As we commemorate today the 90th anniversary of the Canadian victory at Vimy Ridge during the First World War, we are saddened to hear of the loss of six Canadian heroes in Afghanistan.
    Both are tragedies on the path of a good cause, where each and every participant is precious in the eyes of God and this country. Pray for the families and colleagues of the fallen, and may they not be forgotten.

    From the news: (http://lfpress.ca/newsstand/News/National/2007/04/09/3961178-sun.html)
    "It's very poignant (so near) the 90th anniversary of Vimy Ridge to have our people hurt and injured in such a way," said Master Cpl. Paul Franklin (who lost his legs in an Afghanistan suicide attack last year). "It just proves that we are at war and . . . that Canadians will always step up to the plate when we need to."
    On Easter Monday, 1917, Canadian soldiers took the German stronghold of Vimy Ridge but, in just four days, 3,598 Canadian soldiers died and 7,104 more were wounded.
    "We've got to persevere," Franklin said of Canada's Afghan mission. "The Afghan people have asked us to be there. It's something, I think, that's important. All the soldiers over there, everybody believes in it because we see that the fight that's there is the fight that's worth fighting."

    Sunday, April 08, 2007

    Eulogy to our Escort

    On March 19, a member of our family since the fall of 1997 hurt itself, and we were forced to make a painful decision. Here is what Debbie wrote in an email on March 22:
    ESCORT, Green: 1995-2007. In St Thomas, Ontario, on Monday, March 19, 2007, the steady but elderly Escort passed away after bringing our daughter to GEMS. Born in 1995, its green colour could often be seen a mile away by 4 particular children, and many recognized it by its many fishes on its back end. The repair shop coroner pronounced it dead today after a brief examination. Organ harvesting is being explored. Green Escort is survived by Green Montana, who is younger and larger. Montana will not be looking for a new mate in the near future. Condolences are not needed, as Green Escort lived a long and fruitful life.

    Actually I said donations would be gladly accepted, and I am surprised Deb did not use that opportunity. It would have cost well over $1500-2000 to get road-worthy and running, a cost we cannot afford. Looking over the paperwork, it saw many mechanics over the years, and they might not be happy the car died. We are trying to make it with just the minivan for now.

    So our Escort was given up, after almost 9-and-a-half-years in our service. Purchased Sept 26, 1997 from Bridgeview Motors for $7200 plus taxes and licence, starting mileage was 25,411 miles. It died at 182,927 miles, so we got 157,516 miles (or 253,433 Km) out of it.

    Wow. And thank God for good service, safety (one small rear-ender), and many good memories.

    Wednesday, April 04, 2007

    Blah blah quack! blah blah, etc., etc....

    When our kids were young, there were some things I never said, just spelled. Like c-o-l-i-c.
    Of course I also said "the B-I-B-L-E, yes that's the book for me" but that's a song--I was OK with my kids hearing about the Bible.
    I don't know how I should treat the current GW--golden words spoken in veneration by some, gutter words spat out by others. Yes, global warming. OK I said it, don't make me do it again. Hence the title of this post. ("Quack" refers to, as Ken Blanchard points out, people that cannot think for themselves, basically.)
    I am not a follower of the mantra/goldenwords/quacking of the proponents of GW, and that it's main cause is human activity. Lorne Gunter on March 12, 2007 in the National Post, talked about how sun spots can be the cause of rising temperatures on Mars, Jupiter, and even Pluto. And yes the Earth also can be included in this theory. (If you want to read Gunter's column, email me--I don't know how long a permalink to the column online will last.) I bring this up as a new study, in part from NASA, states that Mars is also warming up--and it's mainly because of the dirt. For the record, Mars has zero people there.
    Actually, this picture can lead to great warming--starting in your heart:
    Posted from here to warm your heart and world and maybe even help sell a few of these posters. And yes they are a set of quadruplets dressed as baby ducks--and giggling, not quacking.

    LATER (May 9/07): The London Free Press has a photo gallery of the quads' first year posted here. Yes even the hardest "no kids for me" man can enjoy this.

    First Toilet, now Paper!

    Google wasn't done AFD with their TiSP--they also introduced Gmail Paper.
    To quote from http://mail.google.com/mail/help/paper/index.html,
    New! Introducing Gmail Paper
    Everyone loves Gmail. But not everyone loves email, or the digital era. What ever happened to stamps, filing cabinets, and the mailman? Well, you asked for it, and it’s here. We’re bringing it back.
    Click for more info, and they explain more, including that it's free! I won't spoil you with excerpts, you should see this for yourself.

    "You Click. We Stack. You Get." Ri-i-i-g-h-t.

    Monday, April 02, 2007

    Google does AFD again--brilliantly!

    Google continued its streak of April Fool's shenanigans yesterday by announcing the launch of TiSP (BETA). The new venture is a free in-home wireless broadband service that works by connecting to a sewer Internet network after being flushed down the toilet. For the first few minutes, the TiSP welcome site is pretty convincing ...

    Hat tip: www.RelevantMagazine.com

    Saturday, March 31, 2007

    April Fool's Day is coming--glee!

    The Museum of Hoaxes (yes, it's a real organization based in San Diego) has compiled a list of the best April Fool's Day pranks ever. You can click here to see the top ten, and the museum's website is www.museumofhoaxes.com, but for some reason (high publicity and traffic before the big day, maybe?) the site won't open. Later then I'll link to my favourite--Guinness Mean Time.

    Later: MoH is back up, and they expect it. The curator wrote last year:
    "You may also have noticed that the site is loading slowly. That's the April Fool's Day effect, which happens every year. Traffic to the site spikes, causing the server to grind to a halt. There's nothing I can do about it. I'm lucky the site is loading at all. "

    So here is the direct link to the Guinness Mean Time AFD hoax that caught London's Financial Times: http://www.museumofhoaxes.com/guinness.html

    I dare you to stay less than 5 minutes in the Museum.

    Tuesday, February 13, 2007

    Photo & Audio Winners

    I'm back. I hope the silence wasn't too deafening.

    World Press Photo of the Year winners for 2006 were announced last week, now displayed at http://www.worldpressphoto.com/index.php?option=com_photogallery&task=blogsection&id=17&Itemid=146&bandwidth=high .
    Some astounding photos, especially those portraying human suffering and the depravity of man. Make sure that you see inside all of the Stories portfolios. And of course if you have time you can go back in time thru the WPP gallery links. No time now, but I would like to view them.

    Perhaps a shocker for some readers who know me, but congrats to the Dixie Chicks on their Grammy wins (5!) Sunday night. I am not a fan of much secular music, and not country music (is theirs still "country?"), and I certainly disagree with the Chicks' politics. BUT I agree with their right to speak what they want, and their right to suffer or enjoy the consequences. I have heard only a few songs from their album "Taking the Long Way", but the one that hit me was their first hit.
    Why I like their song "Not Ready to Make Nice" (lyrics here, video here) is the middle verse:
    I made by bed, and I sleep like a baby,
    With no regrets and I don't mind saying,
    It's a sad sad story
    That a mother will teach her daughter
    that she ought to hate a perfect stranger.
    And how in the world
    Can the words that I said
    Send somebody so over the edge
    That they'd write me a letter
    Saying that I better shut up and sing
    Or my life will be over.
    No, I don't like to hear what they said, because it is a sad story that this happens. Especially from small "c" conservatives and suupposed "Christians". When I first heard this song, and every time I heard it, these lyrics hit me. And I was sad, because I know it was true.

    Engage in dialogue, give correction: yes. Spew hate and breed it in our kids: Absolutely not.